Every so often, I come up with a list of characteristics that are important to me in a future relationship. These lists are often influenced by the previous guy I’ve been with or after I’ve witnessed some random man behavior. Once I make a list, I let it go. I don’t know the specific science behind it; I think it travels out into the universe and weaves its way into the space-time continuum. Yeah. That sounds right.
I made my very first list a few years ago after my long-term relationship ended. It was a hefty list. It weighed a ton. My last list, which was relatively straight-forward and short, described PYP to a tee. I didn’t realize it until I revisited that particular one. It’s a good example of a list coming to life and a reminder that even when a list is fulfilled, it doesn’t mean I will be.
As of today it’s been simplified:
A grown-ass man who is kind, loving and funny.
Needless to say, chemistry is very important. I can’t explain the science behind this, either – something about pheromones and juju – so I am providing examples and reasons having nothing to do with their looks (I’m forced to do this on my blog because Amazon.com doesn’t allow for a wish list for human beings. Seriously? It’s 2014!!):
There. It’s out in the universe now. Fly, list, fly…where and when you land is anybody’s guess. I have to move along now. There is much to train for in 2014…
5 thoughts on “The List”
that’s a pretty well rounded list. i should re-think my list (i forgot who was on it) although, these two will probably be permanent fixtures 😉
Good ones! Wasn’t JGL on your list at one point?
Yes, he’s just there to look at. Pot smokers are kind of a turn off.
OK, I totally have to agree with you there on how Ryan Gossling is so ugly, turns the stomach, and yes, Hugh Jackman needs to work more on keeping his physique…NOT, NOT, NOT!
Haven’t seen Javier Bardem in talk shows yet, but I like that photo, 🙂 as well as to see Ewan, or Obi-Wan Kenobi’s side job photo in this post’s comment section (I’m a Jedi Knight AND I model, got a problem with that?) BTW, “Ewan” or “Ewan ko!” means I DON’T KNOW in the Tagalog language.
uh oh…I hope we don’t have the same taste in ugly men…
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